Orgasm problems |
Problems with reaching an orgasm could be present in all sexual interactions, in all stages of life or can be isolated to specific interactions. This means you could experience difficulties reaching in orgasm during intercourse but you might achieve orgasm in an individual situation by masturbation. It could also happen that you haven't experienced problems in a past relationship but you do in your current one. Or you haven't ever experienced a climax. It is quite common for women not to experience a climax during penetration as the most sensitive area of the female body responding most strongly to touch is the clitoris. If this sexual organ is not stimulated during intercourse it could be challenging to reach an orgasm.
Problems with reaching a climax are rarely caused by a gynaecological issue, but could be related to medication use. Some types of medication have a tempering effect on your body’s ability to reach an orgasm, such as antidepressants, pain-relief medication or some types or recreational drugs. Other factors that could inhibit a climax response could be related to a fear of losing control, anxiety, depression, lack of knowledge or exploration of your own body, restrictive/religious thoughts, insufficient stimulation or relationship problems. If you would like to receive treatment for this sexual problem the process at Sex Therapy & Psychology Adelaide would start with an assessment of your circumstances, the possible causes related to the inability to reach orgasm and assessing your desired outcomes for therapy. Possible strategies that could assist towards reaching your goals could include education and exercises to explore your own body and it's response to stimulation, mindfulness, relaxation exercises and exploring possible negative or inhibiting thoughts. This process could be an individual process or could be a shared treatment with your partner, depending on your needs and preferences. If you would like to improve your ability to enjoy your sexuality please feel free to contact Selma van Diest to explore the options for a booking. |